if only success was just about money..
Success occupies the space before
any external recognition comes and
that area all the way after it.
Although it can be reflected on your
bank accounts and assets you possess too,
by no means can it be limited to that.
Financial strength is only a part of what
makes true success. The whole story of
success covers your entire life and is
the more challenging aspect of that sensitive,
fragile, balancing act you are called to perform,
particularly when crisis hits either the unexpected
or the unavoidable kind.
Success truly rests on long term training,
lots of patience and above all, grace.
Without learning how to love yourself,
what you do and finding the right people
to share all your experiences and
accumulated abundance of any short,
you can't talk about success.
Some glimpses here and there, perhaps.
But most of the time it will be frustrating,
why can't I feel happy or content,
loved or motivated...
Your "success" is not authentic but imposed.
It is based on others' expectations.
You feel tempted and all too
often, you will succumb to the blame game.
You will blame yourself, others, the world,
the system..
To no avail..
Why? OK, here we go again..
Stop asking why.
Success starts and ends with you, yourself.
The moment you make the decision and
all the moments after that, you honor
this decision. Your commitment,
your self discipline, your stamina both
physical and mental. Your fight with
resistance. Your push-back to your comfort,
security and safety concerns that
cause you to procrastinate forever..
Not to mention resisting manipulation
and power struggles overall, in any set-up,
both personal and professional.
Success is a rise, absolutely, as much as a dive.
Rise above your circumstances.
Rise above drama either in narcissism or
victimhood form. Dive into your psyche,
heart and belly.
Psyche for your family dynamics and
exploration of the labyrinth
of any traumas with shadow work.
Heart for your passions and desires.
Belly for your instinct, intuition and of
course your fears.
This very rise and dive acrobatics are
essential in order to manage, to navigate
your life and achieve both survival but
also prosperity. Here it lies, the ultimate
success materialization, which can be the
portal to creating happiness for yourself
and its spread to others.
You can't wait to see, to believe.
Belief is the opposite of proof,
it doesn't make sense. If you try to rationalize
and argue to convince yourself, or worse others,
of your choices: Good luck with that!
So, any "realistic concerns" will push you back
and take you far from your passions and dreams.
You commit, regardless though, to remain on
the chosen path no matter what, without
doubting or questioning.
This is faith and trust. It is not an easy ride,
but hey! What else is there? Depending on the
Government measures, your parents sacrificial programming,
or a lover's generocity?
Fine! Good luck!
These are just distractions. You may get lucky
for a while, but soon enough you will have to
face the music of self-worth and inner peace.
True success that they are!
If this comes later in life, for some of us usually
strikes during midlife, it can be almost impossible
to overturn since lack of authenticity and over
dependence on false securities and certainties
strip you of all character building chances,
the true power, the real success.
Therefore, one must daily attend
and nurture his/her passion.
Instead of lip servicing any cause,
one actually does something, even little.
In fact, the hack is to do small, regularly,
to sustain the viability of your dream
despite adversaries and obstacles, not to
mention in spite of the lack of visible signs that
you are right in its pursuing (faith).
Sounds like a torture and yes, success is
not for the fainthearted. Bravery, unlike what
most people consider, has little to do with
bold big actions.
Well, in short, moving from intention to belief
and finally to unshakable faith, is the way to
manifest anything and be successful.
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